Upgrade Your Membership
Let us do the searching for you — hand-picked introductions, no swiping required.
- ✓ Up to 3 hand-picked introductions per month
- ✓ We actively search our database for you
- ✓ Profile pictures of your recommendations
- ✓ Profile review & optimisation
- ✓ Post-date feedback and refinement
- ✓ Regular email updates
- ✓ Up to 5 introductions per month
- ✓ Priority matching — you're searched for first
- ✓ Profile pictures of your recommendations
- ✓ We reach out to compatible singles on your behalf
- ✓ Dedicated matchmaker support via WhatsApp
- ✓ Pause membership for 1 month if needed
Matchmaking Resources
Matchmaking Handbook
How our service works, what to expect, and how to get the most from your membership.
Download PDF →Dating Safety Handbook
Essential safety tips for first dates, meeting new people, and staying safe online.
Download PDF →Date Ideas & Advice
Our speed dating and first dates handbooks — packed with ideas, conversation starters and tips.
Visit the Shop →Date Feedback Form
Share your feedback after a date to help us refine and improve future introductions.
Submit Feedback →Singles Events
Meet people while we search in the background. Members get 20% off all events.
Browse Events →FAQ
Answers to the most common questions about how our matchmaking service works.
Read FAQs →Videos
Dating Uncut Podcast – Ep.1
Starting Again with Amanda Rafferty. Honest conversations about getting back into dating.
Watch Now · 15 minHow Matchmaking Works
Behind the scenes — how we find and curate your introductions.
Coming SoonSuccess Stories
Real couples share how Ratemydateni helped them find someone special.
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