Private Matchmaking for Women 30–34 in Northern Ireland | Ratemydateni
Women aged 30–34 · Northern Ireland

Done with the apps?
Private matchmaking
for women 30–34 in NI

Book your consultation, complete your profile, and explore a more personal, local way to meet someone genuine.

Book your consultation

Usually £35 — currently just £1 for women aged 30–34

Run by a local couple who met at speed dating Belfast-based, across all of NI 300+ successful matches

Is this for you?

This may be a good fit if…

  • You're aged 30–34 and live in Belfast or Northern Ireland
  • You're looking for a real, committed relationship
  • You want something more intentional than dating apps
  • You're open to a more personal, curated process
  • You'd appreciate a friendly, local and human service behind it all

Why choose matchmaking?

Less swiping. Less guesswork.
More intention.

01

More intentional

Every introduction is considered. You're not spending hours swiping through strangers hoping for the best.

02

More personal

We take time to understand what you're looking for and who you'd genuinely connect with before we suggest anyone.

03

More local

A Northern Ireland service built around real people and real introductions — not algorithms or faceless profiles.

The process

How it works

Here's exactly what happens when you book — no surprises.

1

Book your consultation

Choose a time that suits you from our available slots.

Currently just £1 for women aged 30–34
2

Complete your profile form

After booking you'll be asked to fill in your profile — tell us about yourself, what you're looking for and the kind of relationship you want. This is what we use to prepare for your consultation.

Your slot is confirmed once your profile is submitted
3

Meet us for your consultation

A relaxed 30-minute call where we talk through your dating goals, what hasn't worked before, and whether the service is the right fit for you right now.

Video call · low pressure · no sales pitch
4

If accepted, you'll be welcomed onto the service

Suitable members are added to our matchmaking process. From there we get to work finding compatible introductions on your behalf.

We'll be honest if we don't think it's the right fit
After booking, you'll be asked to complete your profile form before your consultation date. Your slot is only fully confirmed once that form is submitted.

Who we are

Why trust us?

G&L
Gerard & Leona
Founders, Ratemydateni · Belfast

We met at one of our own speed dating events and built this business to help other singles meet in real life too. Since 2021 we've hosted events across Belfast and helped hundreds of local people find genuine connections in a safe, friendly environment.

Our matchmaking service is a more personal, guided approach for people who want proper help — and we bring the same warmth to every consultation that we'd want ourselves.

Belfast-based 300+ matches Running since 2021 Fully confidential

No pressure

Friendly, personal
and low pressure

Booking a consultation doesn't mean committing to anything on the spot. It's simply the first step — you book your slot, complete your profile, and meet with us so we can understand whether the service is a strong fit.

If after your consultation we don't think it's the right fit — for either side — we'll be straight with you. No awkwardness. We'd rather be honest early than waste your time.

Ready to start?

Book your consultation below, complete your profile, and we'll take it from there.

Book your consultation

Usually £35 — currently just £1 for women aged 30–34

Common questions

FAQs

We're currently looking to meet more women aged 30–34 in Northern Ireland, so we've temporarily reduced the consultation fee to make it as easy as possible to get started. The normal price is £35 — so it's a genuine reduction, not a gimmick.
It's a relaxed 30-minute video call where we get to know you — your dating history, what you're looking for, and what hasn't worked before. We use your profile form to prepare so we're not starting from scratch. It's conversational, not an interview.
No — and that's intentional. We review everyone after their consultation to make sure the service is a genuine fit for both sides. If we don't think we can help you right now, we'll be honest. This selectivity is what makes the introductions better for everyone.
Nothing. If you're accepted, you'll be added to our dating pool for 6 months at no cost. During that time you may be recommended to paying male members when we're actively searching on their behalf — so introductions can still happen without you spending a penny. If you'd prefer guaranteed recommendations and want us actively searching for you too, our Premium (£79/month) and Elite (£129/month) memberships are available. These are discussed at your consultation — there's no pressure and nothing is charged automatically.
No — we welcome applicants from across Northern Ireland. Most of our introductions and events take place in Belfast, so it helps to be happy travelling there on occasion.
Yes, completely. We handle everything in a personal and discreet way. Your details are never shared publicly and we only connect you with someone after both sides have agreed to an introduction.
The profile form lets us prepare properly for your consultation rather than spending the whole call on basics. It also means we can start thinking about potential matches before we even speak. It takes around 5–8 minutes to complete.

A more personal way
to meet someone genuine.

Book your consultation today — complete your profile, meet with us, and we'll take it from there.

Book your consultation

Usually £35 — currently just £1 for women aged 30–34

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