The women
are here.
Are you ready?
We currently have relationship-minded women across Northern Ireland who are serious about meeting someone properly — not endlessly swiping on dating apps.
- They've been screened.
- They're open to introductions.
- They're looking for men who are ready to make an effort.
🎯 Current offer: £10 consultation. If accepted into our matchmaking pool, your first introduction is completely free.
£10 today. No subscription. No automatic charges. No obligation after the call.
Who's in the pool right now
A small snapshot of the type of women currently active in our matchmaking pool.
Dating apps are exhausting.
This is different.
You don't need to build another profile, swipe for hours, or send messages that go nowhere. We do the searching for you.
After you book, you'll complete a short profile so we can understand who you are, what you're looking for, and whether we already have someone suitable in mind.
Then we'll speak with you on a private 30-minute consultation. If we feel we can genuinely help, we'll accept you into our matchmaking pool and start looking at suitable introductions.
No pressure. No hard sell. No subscription required today.
How it
works.
A private 30-minute video call with Gerard or Leona. We'll talk about what you're looking for and whether matchmaking is likely to work for you.
You'll tell us a bit about yourself and the type of person you'd like to meet. This helps us prepare properly before the call.
We don't accept everyone. That protects the quality of the pool and keeps the service focused on people who are serious.
If accepted, your first introduction is arranged free of charge. After that, you decide whether to stay in the free pool or upgrade for more active matching.
Exactly what
it costs.
30 minutes. We get to know you, what you're looking for, and whether we're a good fit for each other.
If accepted, you can be considered for suitable introductions without paying a monthly fee.
If we accept you and identify a suitable match, your first introduction is completely free.
For men who want more active matching. Includes up to 3 introductions per month.
For men who want priority matching, more introductions, and extra support. Includes up to 5 introductions per month.
Important: nothing is charged automatically after your consultation. The £10 consultation is the only thing you commit to today.
Who this
is for.
This is for men who are:
- Single
- Based in Northern Ireland
- Aged around 40–55
- Serious about meeting someone
- Open to a proper relationship
- Willing to show up and make an effort
This is not for men who are:
- Just curious
- Not emotionally available
- Looking for casual dating
- Not ready to meet someone properly
- Expecting dating to require no effort
£10.
30 minutes.
A better way to meet someone.
If you're serious about meeting someone properly, book your consultation and we'll tell you honestly whether we think we can help.
Book your consultation — £10No obligation after · No subscription today · First introduction free if accepted
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"We met at a speed dating event ourselves, so we know how difficult it can feel to meet the right person at the right time. We built Ratemydateni to make dating feel more human again — local people, real introductions, and no endless swiping."
Gerard & Leona · Founders, Ratemydateni · Belfast